+ another to the list of "it's all well and kind of you to recognize a possible mistake yu made, but she's WAAAY out of bounds". If what we're hearing is the whole story as it relates to the C situation, then she needs "a check up from th neck up".
We've identified that we weren't as strong as we thought: there were little jealousies, lack of attention, poor communication that were creeping in.
Oh yeah, lol. Violet and I have one of the most stable and solid relationships I've ever seen, much less experienced. And we run into this almost monthly. Had a real tough one just yesterday. So far, we always get it resolved and we're always better off for it.