Mono, have I told you lately how awesome you are? I really needed to read and understand what my poly bf is experiencing. When my husband & I agreed to pursue poly, we were so naive, didn't really have any plan. I think we aimed for polyfidelity because it seemed like something we could handle.
Now, we're talking about how we would be open to other partners and it's caused a bit of panic with my bf.
We actually talked a bit tonight and I think we've managed to calm things down, I hope I have reassured him that he and my husband are my world, no one is going to diminish our bond.
And if you ever want to publish your words of wisdom, I'm sort of in the book business
I could at least get you pointed in the right direction! Or at least buy a couple copies