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Old 07-07-2010, 02:54 AM
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OK, I was wondering if it was a gender thing. I was shocked recently to have 2 male friends tell me they didnt consider jerking off to be sex.

And then I asked a couple other men and got the same response.

I've always considered jilling off as sex- sex with myself. Sometimes it's a quickie, but I really like a nice 1 1/2 hr session when the mood strikes, using toys, lovely fantasies, maybe watch a little porn or read erotica first.

But as per my wonderings about intact vs circed men, maybe the orgasm a guy usually gives himself is just like a sneeze.

Do men need a partner to have it feel like sex? Do any women out there get what I am saying about having an event session, not just a quickie, when having self pleasure?
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