Ha, well, when I was cheating, I met more women who were interested. Now that I am not cheating, I am completely alone. haha. Go figure. I did get a message from a certain miss lonelyhearts at OkCupid who was looking for "more than I am getting in my marriage." In my reply, I asked her if her husband knew she was looking. She was outraged and called me an idiot, basically. She also wrote: "My husband and I aren't into that kinky stuff." haha. What fun.
It seems there are more than a few so-called "bi girls" on OkCupid who are actually looking only to meet women or couples, not interested in single men. This is a feature of the swinger lifestyle, as well. Single men are about as welcome as herpes.