My biggest problem at this point is NOT telling people. I'm dying to tell people that my husband and I are in love with our girlfriend!
The thing with my son, he's 15 and at this point I would give him the choice of where he wanted to be. I think he would get over it pretty quick and love her to death, as I know she will him. I guess that part is something I'll have to deal with as it comes.
I really wonder how my friends are going to react when I tell them that "we" as a couple have a woman that we both love and want in our family.
I'm seriously about to test it out on someone just to see how it unfolds!! Maybe a online friend to start.............LOL