Originally Posted by Karma
Am I odd?
If by "odd" you mean part of a statistical minority, sure. If by "odd" you mean a statistical outlier that nobody else can identify with, then no.
The only thought I've ever given to the matter has been "It'd be nice to try it." I've never thought to suggest it and figured if it were ever going to happen, one of the ladies would have to suggest it.
When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.
While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.