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Old 07-06-2010, 06:40 AM
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Originally Posted by SchrodingersCat View Post
After being introduced to poly this way, what made you realize there was something better out there? Did you end this relationship and then go looking for what you really wanted?
I'm not sure I realized there was something better, necessarily. I was (and to some degree still am) trying to find what I really want. I knew what I didn't want!

It's only been three years and I find I'm still getting used to the idea that being poly can also include all the values I hold. (I've always been so faithful). And I'm only just meeting people that have successful poly marriages and kids.

I think I latched onto the ideas he presented and decided to explore them for myself. (Being part of a poly tribe, talking about people you're interested in, negotiating, communicating... all of it).
My heart is too big to fit into one person.
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