Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
My understanding is that when you began your relationship he was in the process of leaving his wife. This implies you were prepared and intending to enter a monogamous relationship. If that is the case than I see his changing his mind as a breach of the expected dynamic and an extreme one at that. [....]
Let him go.
Mono..., Don't you think the situation is a little more nuanced than that?