Originally Posted by vandalin
Personally I might not mind so much, but it would be one-sided on the emotion front. .
That statement alone should be a warning to you. You sound like a person who attaches emotions to sex in a deep way. If kissing caused confusion and mixed messages imagine what having intercourse will do. You don't want to end up feeling used in this.
I'm not saying give up but know when to salvage what you can and move on.
Sorry if this is blunt, take care.