Originally Posted by distraughtinNJ
Yes it is what is on offering and I am having a hard time dealing with that.
Probably, the only hope you have to deal with it well is to find out precisely, exactly, down to the nitty gritty emotional and conceptual details, why this is so "hard" for you.
And that's only the start! Then, you will have to stare it down. I mean, really look at it long and hard, and find out whether what you think and feel is, ultimately, true, good, and right.
Right now, odds are, you're just thinking and feeling what was implanted in you -- and most all of us -- while growing up.
Most everyone in this forum is grappling with that conditioning; and some of us are much further down the road than others.