Originally Posted by Ariakas
Women like this exist. And for them, sex is a big boost. They rarely get refused because, honestly, most men won't say no.
Don't feel stupid, why do you feel guilt because she didn't get it. Don't be the victim be proud of your own resolution.
Early in the process, when she first started circling, a friend who knew her said that she had never really been told "no" before and she didn't know what to do.
And you are right. I'm still lagging a bit in my internal rephrasing(not changing the events, but changing my view of the events). I guess part of me thinks that I wasn't clear enough. But then I remind myself that I couldn't have been any more clear. It isn't that she didn't get it. It's that she got it and just didn't care.
Also, I made sure to remove any ability she had to contact me.