Awww... poor baby. Jealousy is a bitch.
It's tricky to move from jealousy to compersion. I hope you can do it.
I think it's easier for women to get men than vice versa. She's got 3 now and it's totally understandable you're feeling overwhelmed.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37