Originally Posted by eternalsoul
Yea, that's true. It's just after three years of being together, it's hard to simply bring it up... but I'll try.
After three years of being together should you not be able to bring anything up?!
With a statement like that it could be you might have some communication issues to work out for starters.
What do you mean when you say you wonder about a donor for your baby... are either of you incapable of creating a child? confused.
I think you are jumping the gun a bit here with the baby. Seriously, just work on the relationship part. If you think that the guys you have invited into your bedroom are just fuck toys, you have a long way to go.
Do a whole lot of reading on here and elsewhere, suggest you do some reading together, offer her some links and start talking about it... just start... tell her, "hey, I found this forum on line about polyamory, I'll send you the link. It's pretty interesting." See what happens with that.