Gotta agree with my wife on this one. If my gf was in the hospital, whatever plans I had going on just got cancelled. Period. Likewise, if Mohegan had a medical emergency, I would be (have been) right there ASAP, and I imagine that my gf would be driving me crazy asking what she could do to help
The fact that he didn't even offer to change plans or visit..... sounds to me like you're just a plaything to him, dear. That's really messed up, IMO.