Hi! I've been away for some time and wasn't able to check the forum until now.
SchrodingersCat: Yes, we have seated and discussed everything. We now are clear on our rules and how many information to share.
Also, I decided to ask him to finish the affair, and he accepted without hesitation. He understood that honesty is required in order to be really "open" and free.
We both feel relieved and much more close to each other now.
Thanks again for all the feedback!