Originally Posted by saudade
I feel guilty often. I think it might be a 'hinge on the vee' problem in particularm judging by my immediate affirmation of the idea and the lack of similar responses.
That's interesting, I'm the 'hinge of a vee' too, and I totally know what you mean about having concerns over everyone feeling good and supported, worrying about how you're dividing your time, etc., especially as my husband and I are still relatively new to this and he still struggles with it now and then, but I've personally never classified any of those feelings as "guilt." To me it feels more like concern for my partners, occasionally with a dash of anxiety thrown in, but not guilt.