The nature of sexuality with respect to spirituality is a very individual thing. What one may consider a very base act driven by animal instinct to achieve procreation and pleasure, another may associate with a selectively shared form of spititual communication. There are also those who can move between many different aproaches to sexuality depending on the circumstance and people involved. Some people are very stringent and others are more fluid.
There's no right or wrong in much of what we do, just differences which add to the daily flavour of our lives. This sometimes leads to insurmountable differences with an otherwise great potential partner but again that is ok. Not everyone will be on the same page or be able to accomodate differing aproaches to sexuality...but each of us has a responsibility to respect those aproaches in others.
Soap boxes should be made to share how I feel and act..not how anyone alse should.
Playing the Game of Life with Monopoly rules.
Monogamy might just be in my genes
Poly Events All Over