I have written this already somewhere a million years ago, but...
I was lesbian identified for 10 years at one time. I had a wife for about five years and we decided to be non-monogamous when it became trendy to do so in our community. Having been straight identified before I unexpectedly feel in love with our friend... Nerdist. We became three for a bit and thought that we had to be a triad... it was a hopeless disaster that ended in heart ache for my dear J and Nerdist and I felt terrible. We agreed not to see each other. She left to travel and I was left with our apartment. I couldn't pay the rent so Nerdist took me in. It was ridiculous to not recognize we loved each other so we were a couple... he had just come out as bi and we decided he should have the opportunity to explore that. We agreed that we should always have that opportunity and built it into our wedding vows about three years later. Now it's about 10 years later and we are well established as poly, but always learning.
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