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Old 07-28-2009, 05:08 AM
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Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG View Post

All of us have to admit that polyamory fills a void, completes ones ability to love or expands it. It's not all about "I have so much love to give" it's more about "I need more Love".

To a truly mono person, this hurts on a primal level. It can either be overcome by the degree of love in the relationship or it will be too much and they must go their separate ways to remain healthy.

I thought I should expand on two points briefly.

When I say "more love" I fully believe this can be of a heart nature or sexual varies depending on individual needs.

When I say "truly" mono I mean a person who is wired monogamously and not conditioned to behave monogamously. There is a very distinct difference.
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