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Old 06-26-2010, 12:11 AM
Noname Noname is offline
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Default How to live in 3's

So I have been researching the poly life. Not sure if it is right for me/us so I am doing as much research as I can so I will have the answers when the girls ask.

So I am 35m, GF is 32, and the 3rd is 31yof. It sounds like the most likely situation would be a vee with me on the bottom and both girls being =. I have no expectations or thoughts of them having any kind of physical relationship but would like them to have a solid friendship.

It is not going to be possible, nor wise I am sure, for use to all live together at first but that would be my end hope. For those that do live together as a vee like this be it 2m 1f or 1m 2f how do things work in your house?

How do you make one on one time for each?
Is there divided space for each person to have their own space?
How are household duties done?

I am a person who is affectionate and likes to be close and hold hands, touch, cuddle, ect.
What are the sleeping arrangements?
If you are sitting around watching TV do you have one partner on each side "cuddling" or do they take turns?
If you are traveling do they take turns on who gets to sit up front/next to you (depending on vehicle)?

I am sure I will have more questions as I go but those are the ones on the top of my head right now.
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