Hey, Blackdog... was enjoying reading your post but found it very challenging because of the lack of paragraph breaks in your formatting. I think we're able to edit our own posts and I'd like it if you could insert paragraph breaks so your post will be easier to read. Thanks.
I presume from what you have written that you're bisexual. (That may be reading too much in, since some polaymorous folks apparently have intensely romantic
yet non-sexual relationships with lovers with whom they don't get naked and wriggle.)
I, myself, am bi-, so if you're bi-, well we have that in common.
I'd say you should go ahead with your exploration of friendship with the guy who asked you out. There is *never* a reasonable excuse for a partner wigging out and being so controlling that he/she prevents you or anyone from exploring profound friendship. Period.
Out of curiosity, what sex are you?
You don't have to rush into anything between the sheets with this friend.
Last edited by River; 03-22-2009 at 03:49 PM.
Reason: adding to my post