Originally Posted by AutumnalTone
I get the idea that she isn't just after the sex, or even just after other relationships. I get the idea that she's addicted to the thrill of the forbidden. I don't see how actually doing poly relationships or open or swinging would solve that problem, as the knowledge and consent involved won't provide the same thrill.
My hallucination, of course, and the only way to find out would to be via serious therapy.
So this raises a question, what do you do with people who love the thrill aspect of it? Is there any way for that to have its place without hurting anyone?
Perhaps that's some of the motivation between DADT agreements? Two partners who love the thrill of cheating and have found a way to have the secretive affairs without breaking the promises of their marriage...