Originally Posted by AutumnalTone
These days, meeting somebody online is mainstream. I met my current wife online. I met my previous wife online. I've never met a long-term partner of any sort at a bar.
Oh sure, I'm aware that it's pretty common to meet people online these days, and I have, in fact, met someone through an email list.
I tended bar for a couple of years, so it'd be kind of weird if I hadn't managed to meet anyone that way.
The gist of what I was getting at, but didn't manage to express, is that I don't actually seek out places where I am more likely to find "poly-compatible" people. That said, it's probably a good idea to do so if one is looking!