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Old 06-23-2010, 06:56 PM
wiredpsyche wiredpsyche is offline
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I think a lot of that is fear of commitment. Someone who is cheating isn't going to try to get you to commit to them.

I have some fear of commitment right now since I've been burned so many times with the "NM, I'm not poly-compatible" thing.

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Originally Posted by Ariakas View Post
I do find people generally open to open relationships, but almost be fearful of poly. Its almost akin to cheating. If a girl thinks I am hiding something and cheating, I can find pickups easily. The minute they know my wife exists and knows...its not as exciting.
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