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Old 06-23-2010, 06:29 PM
AutumnalTone AutumnalTone is offline
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Curly and I sleep apart. She decides who sleeps in her bed and I decide who sleeps in mine. I also much prefer to sleep alone, so these days its very rare that anybody would sleep in my bed besides me.

Beyond that, I'd never regard anyplace I couldn't invite somebody to sleep with me as my regular sleeping space. The moment any partner says "You can't have anybody besides me sleep here" is the moment I find somewhere else to sleep.

Obviously, other folks handle this sort of thing in a different fashion. I'll add to the chorus saying y'all need to sit down and work it out for your own situation.
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When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
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