Its not so much saying that its what she *wants* and deserve, its saying that its what *she is worth* and deserves.
She doesn't feel she is worth anything or deserves to be honoured and treated with respect I don't think.
I have felt this way and exhibited similar behaviour. It took Mono loving me and telling me I was to be honoured, cherished, treated with respect and like my body is a temple. That I should treat myself as such. If you treat her this way, she hopefully will begin to see, as I did.
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