I have finally allowed myself to embrace the fact that it is not wrong or unusual to love more than one- Hallelujah. I am married to a man I love who didn't even flinch when I brought this up to him. We are just starting to figure out how this will work for us- it is exciting and frightening all at once, but I already love him more for wanting me( and himself!) to have all that I desire. I just had to ask for it. Lesson #1 learned.
I am interested in talking to others of the same mind about things we are unsure of as yet. I seek friendship and a community of support for us as we embark on this adventure in self-fulfillment together. Thank you for being here for us.