Thanks for the feedback! I appreciate it.
It seems she gets her thrills from cheating itself. Agreeing to be non-monogamous may only be treating the symptoms. I would be more worried that she is self-destructive and does things on purpose to hurt the relationship.
I agree to a point but she has always built up an emotional attachment with her affair partners. No one night stands. She does love being persued. She has had abuse in the past.
I guess maybe I was suggesting to use her for my gratification. I honestly thought that this might help us. I think you are right. My past relationships have been monogomaus. She has had similar patterns before me. She was faithful for our first 5 years together. We started clashing on our beliefs and she started straying.