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Old 06-21-2010, 09:52 PM
melodyofthree melodyofthree is offline
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Default Poly relationship with formerly-mono couple

I recently started a poly partnership with someone who is also with their former monogamous partner of 3 years.

I've been in poly relationships before, in different forms, but haven't entered one that was already in existence (ie: in the past, the initial relationship was created by myself and a partner/partners).

I'm curious if anyone has advice about how to handle coming into someone's life who is working things out with a previously monogamous partner. I can't help but feel like I have a larger hurdle than I'm used to, or like I'm "secondary" in this situation.

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