Originally Posted by rpcrazy
3. The first thing you need to do is FIGURE OUT WHAT YOU WANT. If you don't know what you want, chances you are could be stringing your partner along or worse...
And allow it to change if necessary. This has been a big lesson (life or poly) for me. I was locked into so many rules when I first got here, and have slowly been breaking down the rules...I am so quick to break other(s) rules (natural rebel in me), I wasn't actually taking that advantage myself