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Old 06-21-2010, 08:47 PM
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Great to hear how all of this is going so happily!

Originally Posted by sparrow View Post
Where K had been asking me to move closer for quite some time and I'd been trying to think of every reason I can't do so, but when the opportunity arose for K and her husband, L, to move into a two bedroom apartment, my heart couldn't pass up the invitation any longer.
This part is my only concern, and that's because I'm never comfortable with people meeting online and then moving across the country to live together, without first living in the same city and dating more frequently. I'm just scared that people will uproot their lives and then find out it wasn't what they expected.

But that's also partially bullshit on my part, because when my husband and I started dating, he pretty much came to stay with me for a few days and never left. Three and a half years in and things have never been better between us...
As I am sure any cat owner will be able to tell you,
someone else putting you in a box is entirely different
from getting into a box yourself.
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