Sometimes sex can be painful for me, especially doggie-style. I have an extremely small vagina (I can reach my own cervix with my index finger, and my diva cup sticks out by over 1cm). It's not a question of getting used to it, it's about finding positions that work for me. Certain positions, I will never get used to, any more than a 6' person could get used to sitting in a contortionist box.
Originally Posted by MariusdeRomanus
I wish Andulvar weren't so protective; Selene can talk for herself, and I know she likes that much better.
This almost sounds more like controlling than protective. My understanding of this statement is that Andulvar doesn't always allow Selene to speak for herself, but rather tells the rest of you what she thinks and feels?
Perhaps by the term "marital voice" you mean that he also speaks like "we feel this" and "we think that"? That's also silly. Married people don't share the same brain and heart. They have separate thoughts and separate feelings, and they may not always be in sync.