Originally Posted by Ariakas
Which is almost an oxymoron.
I'm not sure why you are puzzled. Confident people are attractive. Alpha males by their vary nature have some degree of confidence. I am only attracted to people with confidence.
Barring their differing communication styles of course. You can be an alpha male and not be a giant douche.
That's the puzzle. Jerome called himself an "alpha male", but he also said he would feel "insecure" if he allowed his "submissive women" to date other men. It appears that neither the alpha male nor the submissive women have much self-confidence.
Maybe that's it. Alpha males and submissive women are attracted to each other because they feel comfortable with their common lack of confidence.
Like attracts like. Birds of a feather flock together. Insecurity attracts insecurity.