Redpepper- I explained why it seemed odd to me in the very next line. I just haven't known men personally willing or able to share with another man. But I'm glad you have found your loves and they share that ability. Maybe in NYC men are "supposed" to be "dogs" and women are "sluts" if they "cheat" with another man? But a bi chick is "hot" and actually sought after. I don't know. Not my mentality, but it does seem the overwhelming opinion here.