Originally Posted by Breathesgirl
She did sent an email (not even a phone call) the next day telling him she hoped he was ok and to let him know she did get to play but it wasn't as good as with him. Nothing like veiling a compliment inside a dis, is there? He doesn't see the dis, only the compliment.
FWIW, I don't see the dis' either.
I'm not sure that I understand the problem here at all, actually. You describe the woman as a FWB to your partner. For the sake of the long-term friendship, it might be the respectful thing to do to clue her in that he doesn't see them playing together again in the future, but some relationships just don't need a lot of processing or closure. Also, I'm not sure fussing about whether they will or not at an actual play party would have been the right way to go.