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Old 06-19-2010, 11:27 PM
Ariakas Ariakas is offline
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Through my own jealousies I have realized that I have a tendency to do too much and then feel resentful about it. I am trying to let go of a lot of the domestic stuff that I have been conditioned and conditioned myself to believe is necessary.
Great self observation.

Its a weakness in me too. Apply it to anyone I am trying to hold onto or impress and I put more of myself into it and then have reciprocal expectations...which is actually where my personal resentment comes from.

I either need to stop being so...giving (wrong word but can't thnk of anything else) or...stop expecting the same in return

I opted to stop the expectations. I wouldn't be me if I didn't give myself...
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