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Old 06-18-2010, 03:14 PM
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Both of you need to stay strong and do what will keep you happy and healthy in the long run. Regardless, the world will not end. You need to do what will make you fulfilled and so does he. Don't let this fade into the background, talk, talk and talk. Let him know that it is an opportunity for him too. He might surprise himself if he thinks about the idea of an open relationship. Don't attack his beliefs though, focus on what you see as the healthy benefits of yours. Avoid things like "all people are actually this way" but tell him that there are working examples of open relationships/poly.

Ultimately, strength to follow your convictions is needed. Just as it is for him.
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