Originally Posted by Morningglory629
I just think that constant focus on the negative, or perceived negative, is detrimental to moving-on and growth.
Really, this is true for everything in any situation.
I have been known to get into negative spirals. Its creates what I call the toilet bowl affect to the point I can't see positive when it comes my way. Luckily I have friends and a wonderful wife to slap me upside the head when I get to involved in my own misery.
Not only does it affect me, but it can bring down people around me (hell I am a pisces I wear my life on my arm, people ALWAYS know how I feel) which is usually what drags me back out. I always feel very bad when I notice other people are coming down the toilet with me, so I fight to come back.
Btw, not saying here anyone here is at that point, just making a general point about being negative and how it can become a compound injury if not dealt with