I am 35 years old. My wife and I have been together since the 8th grade (20yrs ago).I grew up in a home that for a short time was poly. My mother was Bi (now lesbian) and father believes in polygamy (nolonger practicing). It ended very badly dividing my sisters from my brother and I for 11years from the age of 5 (now we are close).
My wife and I have been "Swingers" for 10yrs she is Bi and has had a few girlfriends over the years.Usualy I get to play some and we often get with couples for fun. We have been in 2 poly relationships #1 was 4 months of bliss with her best friend (and first girl/girl love).#2 was a bit longer but she was lesbian and tried to take her away (jokes on her ie...Rocsolid).
This is my first ever post anywhere.... in the www. I have a lot of things I intend on asking you all.Also I think my experiences my be able to help some one.
To wrap this up my first question to get this rolling. I keep thinking of our poly relationship #1 which my wife still regretts putting a stop to (8yrs now).I would like to capture that again need a starting point. Ideas about methods is what I'm fishing for.
PS. The first girl was a Unicorn she loved us both equaly and still does (but out of reach or we'd take her back instantly). we understand this is rare and we're only going for "close"