Originally Posted by SeekerOfTruth
If am to end things, is there anything I can do to try and help her other than to end it in a short, simple message? I want to go through each of her problems and struggle with her until she recognizes them, but I realize this is a terrible idea. Is there nothing I can do for her? Again, my thanks to everyone who has responded here, you have been a universe of help.
Write her a letter, detail it all but don't leave it open for discussion otherwise you'll end up in a never ending cycle. The debate will be endless. Be strong and be firm.