Hahaha...I just want to say one thing.
It's not a gender thing....it's an extrovert/introvert thing.
Introverts aren't good at sharing and talking things out. They like to work it out within the mind and share only when it's been resolved on the deeper level.
Extroverts need to talk things out in order to figure them out.
Just a thought.....
I have several guys in my life who are great at sharing and I have females who have a really hard time sharing......
In my fluid poly life, I am currently the leg of 2 Vís and the point in 2 Triads.