I am a 30 year old woman, I've been in a relationship with a man for 8 years. We've had sexual relations with other people as a couple, but never anything more. I love him dearly, but there's something missing that he's just not able to provide - he seems to understand this and has not raised any objections in my quest to fill this void.
I don't wish to end the relationship; he is my best friend as well as my life partner, and I love him very much. I met another man recently that fills the void, and I wish to maintain relationships with both. My partner, my son, and I are taking a trip to visit the new man and his daughter in a few weeks. Both men want to meet each other (they are both straight, in case you were wondering) and seem agreeable to the possibilities laid out ahead of us
My hope is that they will get on well and that we can move in together and create an extended family. As there are children involved, we are taking this slowly and carefully. Does anyone have any advice here on how to proceed? The last thing I want to do is hurt anyone, or screw up our kids