seeker, in my opinion, she seems to easily manipulate you. I think, for your own safety, I would tell her that you don't want to see her again and that you feel that she can easily manipulate you and that is why you are doing it over the phone. I would call, to make it somewhat personable.
You might get some flack over this, but in the end it might just be safer for you.
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