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Old 06-13-2010, 10:42 PM
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I am still relatively new to this (3 months), but for me the biggest learning curve has been that I have to be willing to give what I am asking for. If I want my husband and L to listen to my feelings without becoming defensive or frustrated, then I have to be willing to do the same.

Another lovely thing learned has been just what a truly amazing man my husband is. I have watched him tackle seriously uncomfortable emotions that he was not expecting, and do it while consistently telling us that he is not going anywhere. I have learned how strong and present he can be, even when dealing with emotions that would send most people running for the hills.
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