Originally Posted by GroundedSpirit
Do you open the topic of poly - and how it could be a legitimate option for her to build intimacy and a strong support system ? And start the education by offering examples of how that can happen.
And if you don't, but just try to offer sympathy and 'classic' dating advice - WHY ??????
I absolutely tell people. I am up front about my situation. I simply can't see the benefit in NOT being honest about the fact that this "lifestyle" IS the solution to finding my happiness and security.
A few people have gotten saucer sized eyes-but most have been curious, interested and in wonderment.