Originally Posted by Ariakas
ps, he must be a miracle worker with a calendar haha...love may be infinite, but time in a day is only 24 hours haha
I will simply say...people who suck at monogamous relationships are going to suck at poly relationships. Poly isn't some magic egg to make everything feel right in the world. Relationships take work...so in general, the relationships are as good as their weakest person.
B-I-N-G-O! Labels are misleading, and have been a huge source of discomfort in our situation. we are all just working on our relationships with everyone involved. It takes alot of communication...at times it does make your head spin and your BP raise (or rise , not sure), but if it is going to be a long term and not casual or even tersiary well then...work it is!