Originally Posted by River
Hmm. Aren't most people who engage in casual sex not really much available for a mature, wholesome, lasting relationship? In my observation and experience, this is so. But most of this experience or observation is with or about queer men. Perhaps it's different in a heterosexual context. (I'm bi-, but most of my experience is with other men.)
Yea - I think it is different (in a hetro context) River.
In my experiences I've seen a predominance of people who were trying to use sex to get to what their real goal was. And that usually doesn't work especially well either ! <chuckle>