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Old 06-11-2010, 07:02 AM
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Thanks guys.. i have still not heard from him. I think you were right.. I came on too strong... Like I was pushing my polyness onto him. I really just wanted him to know that i liked him. That's all... he is just a really good friend and now I'm afraid that I have messed it up somehow. In the future... I will not just blurt it out.
Another possibility is that you came on too strong in general, not just with the poly. A lot of people, guys especially, can get a little scared about getting caught up in something too quickly. It could be that bringing up poly made it obvious that you were trying to get in a relationship with him, and maybe he was only ready to date you and see if it led to something more.
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