Thread: Lying to myself
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Old 06-11-2010, 04:33 AM
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Originally Posted by SchrodingersCat View Post
Wouldn't it be awesome if every man had a "wing woman" for when they get into arguments, to help them keep perspective? And Vice-versa....
Definately!! after my 12 year lesbian relationship (in which I had isolated from men entirely) I made so many guy friends and I "studied" them to see how they think. I questioned them constantly on all subjects (but mostly relationship stuff) and I did realize that men and women are definately different in the way the process relationship stuff!!

I say all three of you, because it can really help to have "the other woman" involved, so that she feels like a real live person to you, with hopes and dreams and fears just like you have, as opposed to some faceless other body that your husband is banging.
I agree with this. I have said this before too..... ditto !!!
The key to life is in being fully engaged and peacefully detached simultaneously and authentically in each moment.
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