Ok girlcaleb...you have to start posting where you are from. So many "single" poly's are men I am sure they would want to know where this hotbed of poly-available women are. You are the opposite of everything I have read or encountered hahaha
Well..my take on your statement
One of my close friends, who is also poly, stated that its great being able to hook up for casual sex - but that isn't what I want.
is this. And I look at it if I were single to. Sometimes sex comes as a precursor to a relationship. I personally, take relationships as they come. In the form they come in. I learned that here actually, and it is paying off
...all of my relationships (long term) have started with an intense sexual connection. I could never dismiss casual sex as an option for a relationship as you just don't know what can happen...